Monday, October 20, 2008

Anger



How do we deal with angry patient?

"Eh Doc!... Why took you guys so long to see us ah! You know how long I tunggu kat depan tu... anak I cry kat rumah.. and I have to pick my hubby kat tempat keje dia.. if like this besok pon tak abis!!" the 40 year old auntie grinded her teeth while showing her canine side to me.

I studied her face and posture. She looked as If she's gonna chew me slowly taking her time. Well she's a
bit hairy too... could easily has a werewolf gene inside her.

Thank God it's not full moon.


Here is where I pulled out my multiple choice answer response template:

A) Well.. hang on there, I get you the doctor. I'm the new nurse here.

B) Shut up or I'm gonna rip that mouth of yours using this syringe.

C) Hmm (long pause) have a seat, how can I help you mizz?

D) Oh God.. please - please I beg you don't hurt me.


I gave her my best-actor performance smile, pull out a chair and have her seated. Without acknowledging her 'madness', I proceeded to the 5 min-consultation.

Gave her the priscription, and off she went.

Do not in any circumstances provoke the anger. Playing fire vs fire would not help in this case. Just chill, act cool and do your job.

I find that in most cases, these anger-outburst moment are not circumstantial. The feeling has already built up inside that person way back before they walk into the clinic. It could have been death in the family, fighting with spouse, didn't get laid for a month - you name it...

... the long-waiting hour to see the doctor, is rather the last straw that break the donkey.

With that I'm not implying that auntie is a donkey.
(Well.. hey but a werewolf sure! Heheh!)

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Raya!


Raya came and went in a smooth ride. No bump, no glitch in the matrix. Got a few days off and went back to kampung. What a nice way of spending one's holiday. 3 in 1 stuff - I love it.




  1. Get away from hospital


  2. Road trip


  3. Meet the parents (my own parents)



The idiom goes that during holiday season, the hospitals in KL would be almost empty. Lotta people want to be discharge home (even they insist on AOR - 'against medical advice' ~~ Okay I admit I forgot why the abbreviation doesn't match).



On the other hand, the hospitals in kampung area - say Kota Bharu would be full. Coz the children who balik kampung would find that their papa & mama's foot ulcer, diabetes are not controlled and took them to hospital.

Ha ha luckily I'm working in KL.